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When Consistency Feels Like a Cage: A Love Letter to the Inconsistent Ones
The Cult of Consistency
The world is obsessed with consistency.
“Show up the same way every day.”
“Discipline over everything.”
“Success loves structure.”
Blah. Blah. Burnout.
We’re told if we just keep doing the same thing in the same way, eventually it’ll all click.
But here’s the sacred rebellion: You don’t have to be consistent to be committed.
Read that again.

Bobbie Deno
Aug 102 min read


The Thing About Fear
We’ve mastered the art of pretending everything’s fine while we’re dying inside. We’ve built elaborate systems to avoid looking at the scared parts of ourselves. We’ve gotten so good at hiding from our own fear that we’ve forgotten it’s even there.

Bobbie Deno
Jul 112 min read
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